tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4314671323062443373.post1183407170874882771..comments2023-07-08T04:52:29.834-07:00Comments on Confessions from Boystown: I miss youSortaSuperMomhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18307808647351378016noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4314671323062443373.post-39369061599921256112011-08-05T23:25:50.087-07:002011-08-05T23:25:50.087-07:00{{{hugs}}} We find a way to get through it, but we...{{{hugs}}} We find a way to get through it, but we never get "over" it. I don't think that we should...they are our babies and they have our hearts. <br /><br />My Dorian was stillborn at 20 weeks on 15 July 1993. I didn't "get over it" fast enough and a doctor even had the nerve to say I was nuts for grieving for my baby. That was the last time that I went to that doctor. In my estimation, he was the one that was nuts, not me.<br /><br />Within 6 weeks of losing Dorian, my little man was on the way. If I hadn't lost her, I wouldn't have him, but oh how I would love to have them both. Here. With me now. But, I have to wait until Heaven to be with my Dorian and my other three little ones that went to Heaven at much younger ages than my Dorian - Gracie, Bobby, and Heather. My little man is my miracle. Heavenly Father heard the cries of my grief and brought me comfort in the form of a beautiful little brown-eyed boy. I didn't know eyes could go from blue to brown so fast. There's so much more that I could say here, but I've gone on way too long already. <br /><br />I want to thank you for sharing your blog with me. I am a new follower. Thank you for your sweet note in response to my blog post "Heaven's Playground". May Our Father continue to bless you and your family. <br /><br />Your sis in Christ,<br />SuzSuzanne McClendonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15563562309945754772noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4314671323062443373.post-20177693552950826512011-07-12T22:02:44.373-07:002011-07-12T22:02:44.373-07:00I'm so sorry. I had no idea you'd gone th...I'm so sorry. I had no idea you'd gone through this, and I can't even imagine how hard it must be. Your last sentence made me smile...can you imagine the roughhousing that will occur when all of them are together again one day? Is that what causes thunder? Thinking of you...Gina Jacobs Thomashttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14487466772530822227noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4314671323062443373.post-90058754430027437782011-07-12T18:47:54.960-07:002011-07-12T18:47:54.960-07:00Wow. It still amazes and saddens me how common thi...Wow. It still amazes and saddens me how common this is. We lost our 4th in my 2nd trimester. Like you, one day he was fine, the next week the heartbeat was off. I had 3 ultra-sounds in 5 days & I was forced to see that little heart beat dwindle down to nothing. We opted to let nature take it's course and two weeks later at work I stood up and lost the baby. Thank God it was a holiday & I was doing overtime. There was almost no one there to see.<br /><br />For me, and me only, the way I survived the loss was to convince myself that something happened to my baby and God was going calling him home. The doctors advised me not to try to get pregnant for 6 months. I was pregnant less than 5 months later. What do they know anyway? Our 4th son now is a blessing. He has aspergers and without him, I wouldn't know such a love and such a bright mind. Without having lost a baby, I wouldn't have my Jimmy.<br /><br />Every October 11th is hard for me. That's the day I lost him at work, not the day he passed away. <br /><br />I don't get it, I really don't. But I don't question God either. It is what it is and someday I will be with all 7 of my children. <br /><br />Bless you and your boy<br />SharonAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00537204376003875463noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4314671323062443373.post-79279727177005173532011-07-11T07:44:16.158-07:002011-07-11T07:44:16.158-07:00It's always comforting to know that his last d...It's always comforting to know that his last day on earth was his first in Heaven...I hope and pray that no matter what you go through you will always feel the peace and love of God in your life.Rachel Joyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09441173481652152225noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4314671323062443373.post-1262852762754003292011-07-10T11:05:33.501-07:002011-07-10T11:05:33.501-07:00Beautiful post. I am so deeply sorry you had to go...Beautiful post. I am so deeply sorry you had to got through this. Our fist angel died at 11 weeks and I was devasted. 14 years later I still get a little sad when November rolls around. People don't know what to say, I know I did not until it happend to me and even then I don't know what to say. I will be thinking of you and all your babies today and sending you all lots of love! Take care friend.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09107661365906909620noreply@blogger.com